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If you are looking for a little rub and tug we can't help but if you need help with FetLife you can check out our frequently asked questions below.
How do I change my nickname?
How do I delete my account/profile?
Can I deactivate my profile instead of deleting it?
How do I put intro text about myself on my profile?
My location isn't on your list, what do I do?
I don't want everyone to know where I live, what do I do?
Does FetLife allow multiple profiles?
How do I make a secondary profile?
How do I change my email address?
What is the Main Feed? What's Latest Activity?
Pictures Videos And Writings
How do I upload a picture to my profile?
How do I upload a pictures to FetLife via email?
Can I set my Pictures, Videos, or Writing to Friends only?
I am getting a "Content type" error when uploading a picture - what formats are allowed?
How can I add or edit the caption on a picture or video I've already uploaded?
Can I re-order my pictures or videos, or put them into folders?
How do I delete a picture or video I've uploaded?
How do I embed a video?
Can I embed a picture in a writing?
How do I edit or delete my Writing?
I want to delete a comment I made.
Why would I want to love stuff?
Is my picture's metadata safe?
How do I change my group's name?
How do I join/leave a group?
How do I delete a new discussion I started in a group?
How do I follow a thread?
How do I start my own group?
How can I add or remove group leaders?
How do I remove or ban a memberfrom my group?
How do I ban someone from my group if they've already left?
I don't want to be a group leader anymore, what should I do?
How do I make a thread sticky?
How do I unembed a video in my group?
The "mod" banned me from the group - what can I do about it?
How do I delete my group?
Official Organizer Wants Event Transferred
Where is the event located?
How can I delete my event?
Content Copyright And Permissions
I'm in a Picture/Video that was posted on FetLife, and I didn't give permission!
Someone posted my work without my permission! Pic/Vid/Writing - Digital Millennium Copyright Act (DMCA) notice / takedown
My work was taken down by mistake, what up with that Jerry?
Questionable Copyright report
Trolls in Fetlife don't work!
Is there a mobile version of FetLife?
How do @ notifications work?
Why did I get locked out?
Personal Safety On Fetlife
How do I block another Member?
What does a block do?
Who have I blocked?
How do I unblock someone?
What can I do if someone is following me everywhere in FetLife (Restraining Order)?
What’s a FetLife Warning?
What’s a “Time-Out”?
What’s a FetLife Ban?
Why won't you ban their IP?
I'm scared for my life - in real life!
How do I change my password?
I forgot my password! What can I do?
I've already signed up to FetLife but I can't remember my nickname.
Why can't you just send me my password?
I can't login and I don't have access to my email address associated to my profile.
What is a good password?
After I enter my info, the page just refreshes
I keep getting an error
Friends And Relationships
How do I add/delete a friend?
How do I add/change/delete a relationship with someone else?
I can't update my relationship!
Why can't I search by age/sex/etc?
I can’t send any more messages, what is this Spam/Jerkface thing?
I’ve seen some text formatting, how can I do this?
How do I delete or archive a Message?
How can I find messages I archived or sent?
How can I add a fetish not listed?
I want to start over! How can I get rid of all my fetishes?
How can I remove a fetish from my profile?
Does FetLife automatically re-bill me when my support is up?
I mailed in a donation, how long till you get it?
I want to support FetLife, but not show my badge
How do I know how long my support runs for?
Can I use Paypal to Support FetLife?
How to gift support
Can I use a credit card to Support FetLife?
I just supported Fetlife, but I can’t see videos yet.
Why do I only have three votes?
How do I vote/unvote for a suggestion?
I want to talk about a suggestion
How do I find the Suggestion Box?
Kinky & Popular
Kinky & Popular crashed my browser! What's up with that?
How does my picture, video, or writing make it on to Kinky & Popular?
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